Forgive & Forget
There are times (or maybe now) when you do hate people. Whoever or whatever you are, there are people who love you, but there are also some people who feel like kicking your dangling balls to the moon. If it is not because of conflicts with people, it may be jealousy, or having too many similarities with you or maybe you are just not their type. Whatever shit it is, we should not make it a big deal. You shouldn’t let one single bitch affect you emotionally. And anger makes people do stupid things.
Hate, stress, feelings of revenge or whatever emotional disturbances they are; they will effect your health. You won’t gain anything by hating people. So what’s the point hating people? Imagine meeting someone that you have a conflict with in an elevator. Don’t you feel embarrassed avoiding eye contact with that person? (not to mention without saying a word of “Hello” )
I know forgiveness is notoriously difficult. In fact, not everyone has the steadfastness to forgive. This is because forgiveness is a priceless gift given freely to those who hurt you. It’s a sacrifice because you care about the relationship between you and that person more than the issue.
However, most of us find forgetting impossible. Once someone has hurt you, it will stay in your dirty little mind for the rest of your life. So, we should just don’t give a fuck.
We should also pay scant regards to bad things that people say about other people. People have different points of view towards other people you know. We can’t just belief in some things. For example; Michael Jackson was accused for being a pedophile. So, you just want to belief what he was accused of? We must know the truth that this world is filled with people with self-interest, and what they only care of is their likings.
If you are willing to give others a chance, you will never know what you may get. So, let’s learn how to give yourself and others a chance. We have one precious life. Let’s live life to the fullest.
May we have eternal joy and happiness throughout our entire life living in this ass kissing planet.
“Happiness is the true meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.”
Aristotle
How to give birth as a Virgin
A VIRGIN is originally a woman who has never had sexual intercourse.
However, according to some of those Christian theories, virginity is something you can GIVE but it can never be stolen from you! That’s exactly what a pastor will tell you if you ask him.
“That’s the truth about life, love and sex” – No Apologies workshop
I attended this workshop + camp few years back and this speaker named Joshua forced every participant to make a pledge for abstinence by taking one of those black-in-colour Pledge cards home. Well, he didn’t exactly forced us to, but you should know the typical fishing ploy the Christians always use. They’ll make you feel or look bad for not taking one of those cards home.
Eg. of one of the very effective fishing ploy they use in interschool rallys
” It is ok if you are not a Christian BUT … (and there goes the bull shit) “
The question is:
What if you are a sweet little virgin with your fleshy hymen still intact and then you got raped?
-You are still a virgin-
What if you are a virgin, got raped, then pregnant and then give birth?
-Then you are giving birth as a virgin-
Does that sound ambiguous?
I love you. But I have to reject you!
* WARNING! I decided to post about this after reading a post about faith and love by karyan™. People of different beliefs, PLEASE -no hard feelings. As humans, we are able to question anything, including the existence of God because we are “naked”. If questioning the existence of Him is a sin and we are not “allowed” to, it is something like the characters in the stupid Harry Potter fantasy story being afraid of talking about You Know Who. Relating to the fairytale of our ancestors, Adam and Eve, I think Eve made a great decision to eat the fruit. The serpent said you can Be Like God if you eat the fruit of the tree in the middle of Eden. And Eve ate it. That shows curiosity and thirst for knowledge. And that’s the power of humanity. And she made a difference to mankind today. She “stimulated” our cerebral.
Sin separated Man from God. - Romans 3:23
“God is one side and all the other people on the other side” - Timothy 2:5
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” - Romans 3:23
Those who do not know God will be punished with everlasting destruction and shut out from the presence of the Lord. – 2 Thessalonians 1:8-9
-You’ll go to a place called hell if you do not know God and burn forever till the end of time.
“Christ died for your sins once & for all to bring you to God.” – 1 Peter 3:18
-But He ”LOVES” you. - ♥
Does this include everyone?
” Yet to all who received Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God” – John 1:12
So, a big fat NO. Only to those who believes in Him. So does that mean he doesn’t love me if I don’t believe in Him? I will go to a place called Hell and burn forever till the end of time?
Let me get it straight to the point just in case you think that this is a biblical post to bring you closer to God. Firstly, I must say I totally doubt the existence of an omnipotent being who looks at us from up there, paying attention to everything we do 24-7. So it is not going to be any of those brain-washing bull shit that you’ll get from Gospel Concerts or InterSchool Rallys.
How can you reject love because of religion?
Take Christianity as the example, the religion with about 33% of our world’s ass-kissing population. A Christian believer CANNOT marry a non-Christian.
Let’s say I am a Buddhist. The hot girl that I have fallen in love with is a Christian. And she rejected me because I’m a non-Christian. How does that feel? Every religion promotes good principles to everyone, right?
If love is not a sin, how can loving someone else with a different religion make it a sin? Why? afraid that I will promote sinful acts to the Christ-believing girl and drag her down to be against Christ, the one who died in the cross for me because he loves me for whoever I am?
If Christ love me, is he willing to send me to hell just because I don’t believe in Him? Does the omnipotent Father care so much about whether people belief in Him or not? And if love is the purpose of life, what can you say about all that? And look at that picture up there.
What the hell is God’s purpose if it is not love, joy and happiness? Is it Heaven? What can heaven provide me then …other than love, joy and happiness which is the true meaning of life?
And if Christians can’t love a non-Christian, isn’t it a pathetic answer that we can ONLY BE FRIENDS with them?
I was given an answer that, YES, we have to reject LOVE because religion comes first. God is number 1. But isn’t it love the true meaning of life? Isn’t it LOVE the number 1?
So are you telling me that you’re rejecting someone who loves you for some shit that you have not even met which people call God?
Some Christians say what makes Christianity so special compared to other religion is FAITH. Well, Faith is Doubt as said by Emily Dickinson.
Faith = Doubt. Because Faith is some sort of Belief. It is not something you can do with your pair of hands and legs. It’s some sort of HOPE.
So you’re rejecting something REAL and powerful deep down in your cholesterol-packed heart ; LOVE, because of a BELIEF?
I would believe any religion that could prove it had existed since the beginning of the world. But when I see Socrates, Plato, Moses and Mohammed , I do not think there is such a one. All religions owe their origins to man. - Napoleon Bonaparte
Faith is a fine intervention,
For gentlemen to see;
But microscopes are prudent
In an emergency!
-Emily Dickinson
Faith is believing things by definition, which are not justified reason. If it were justified by reason, it wouldn’t be faith. – Colin McGinn
If God listened to the prayers of men, all men would quickly have perished; for they are for ever praying for evil against one another. – Epicurus
The religion that is afraid of science dishonours God & commits suicide – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Faith is the great cop-out, the great excuse to evade the need to think and evaluate evidence. Faith is belief in spite of, even perhaps because of, lack of evidence. -Richard Dawkins
If he is infinitely good, what reason should we have to fear him? If he is infinitely wise, why should we have doubts concerning our future? If he knows all, why warn him of our needs and fatique him with our prayers? If he is everywhere, why erect temples to him? -Percy Bysshe Shelley
*To people who love the Absolute power quotation* 
If absolute power corrupts absolutely, where does that leave God? – George Daacon
I’m not a bad guy! I work hard, and I love my kids. So why should I spend half my Sunday hearing about how I’m going to Hell? – Homer Simpson 
